by ricks
16. October 2009 12:59

Jesus said in Matthew 19:6: "What God joins together, let man not separate." When wedding vows are spoken, the marriage is not the action of a man or a woman. God acts. God joins a man and a woman in marriage.
But we also must act to build marriage. Carl Sandberg's daughter wrote that her dad had quite a temper but her mom always coaxed him out of it. Once, when Carl had grown old, he pulled at the handle of a screen door and it was stuck. He shouted in anger. But his petite wife looked up at him, patted his chest, and said, "What a fine strong voice!" Carl Sandberg was disarmed by her love and no longer able to be mad. Keep building.